He Said Part Four

Question: Was it a mistake because anything that even comes close to real intimacy freaked her out? Or was it that I was just not good enough?She never called... She never texted... She’s gone... So I roll out of bed and I place my head in my hands and I notice my eyes are wet... I guess this is goodbye... I thought giving her space would allow her time to breathe and come back to me... but I think I slipped her mind, so I lay back downAnd I'm thinking What the hell just happened? How did we get here? Is she really gone? Maybe I should have fallen...

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He Said...Part Three

Question: How do you fix what you've messed up? I lay here in complete silence... Staring at the ceiling, I watch as shadows dance on my walls from the cars passing. I look over and there is a glow from my phone but it’s not her, the battery just completed its charge. It feels like it has been months since I've heard her voice but it’s actually only been two weeks. The pain is still fresh and I try to drift off to sleep. Damn... I miss her- everything about her from the tip of her nose to the way she smiles. I squeeze my pillow tighter and...

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She Said...

Question:  HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE MOVING TOO FAST IN A RELATIONSHIP?             You know that feeling you get when your eyes meet with someone else’s and it doesn’t waver? It’s like in the movies when everything is at a standstill, but you and that person and everything goes silent. That’s how it was when I saw Ron. I had noticed him when I walked in the restaurant, but then attended to my table as I was meeting some of my co-workers for drinks. But it was that one second...

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He Said...Part Two

Question: How do you know if you've met your Soul Mate? So I’m sitting here looking at her picture trying to figure out how to start this letter… How do I capture not only the beauty of her, but let her know how I feel…. I guess I could start by telling her thank you. I am saying thank you because she is everything I have ever wanted and everything I’ve prayed for. She is the quintessential essence of beauty; she has a strong yet gentle soul. Her love makes me feel whole. I love everything about her from the style of her hair, to the shape of...

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He Said...

Question: What do you do when the woman you love is in love with someone else? "I am nothing special; just a common man with common thoughts, and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one respect I have succeeded as gloriously as anyone who's ever lived: I've loved another with all my heart and soul; and to me, this has always been enough." - The Notebook Things were going so well, or so I thought... if that were really the case then I wouldn't have this pain in my chest, tightness...

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National Marriage Week

February 7- 14 is National Marriage Week and MyMarriageWorks.org an online based marriage site is giving away a free E-Book for married couples. Click Here To Get Your Free Copy! Happy Marriage Week!...

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Welcome To Love Theories!

It is our hope that you will find this blog to be useful in your efforts to understand the opposite sex. Check back often for posts about love, sex, relationships & more! Feel free to share your thoughts and your love theories too! Together we can strive to better understand one another. Look forward to interesting stories and features that will display our perspectives, both male and female to be exact, and not just one-sided opinions. We look forward to the love dialogue! -Kevana Nixon & Vince Sears, Your Love Theori...

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